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Post by tommywong on Jan 15, 2006 20:29:23 GMT -5
www.bitterasianmen.com/Bitter Asian Men is about Asian Males being significantly disadvantaged in the dating (and therefore mating) game. The extension to this phenomena is that of not only Asian Males being rendered obsolete in the procreation (Higher rates of Black and White Males get to procreate in any given society than Asian Males), but Asians, or the Mongoloid form is being bred out by the more dominant Negroid and Caucasoid forms in these mixed society (High rates of Black Males+Black Females and White Males+White Females getting to procreate in any given society than Asian Males+Asian Females). I will expand more on this later, but I havent the time at present. The biggest question I have is why is it easy to picture any Black Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, and again any White Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, but very hard to picture any Asian Male in a relationship with any female other than an Asian Female? Something about the Asian Male Physique? Facial Expressions? make it seem like Asian Males are more feminine or weaker than Black and White Females. (TommyWong is not my real name for annoymity reasons, but I am an Asian Male)
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Post by stella22 on Jan 15, 2006 20:42:30 GMT -5
Asian males haven't caught on. The Asian female has been sexualized in society and they take advantage of this. All we need are a few hot Asian male celebrities to make Asian males trendy. There is nothing inherently wrong/feminine about Asian males to make them less desirable.
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Post by anodyne on Jan 15, 2006 20:46:37 GMT -5
This is my opinion. I don't believe Asian men are generally forceful enough with the ladies. What I mean by "forceful" is that they do not assert themselves, which women generally prefer, or at least that's what I've noticed. Also, I get the impression they give up before they even make an attempt to "hit" on a white woman.
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Post by alaina on Jan 15, 2006 20:55:14 GMT -5
The biggest question I have is why is it easy to picture any Black Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, and again any White Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, but very hard to picture any Asian Male in a relationship with any female other than an Asian Female? I dated an Chinese man for about three weeks. It's terrible that it took that long for me to realize that he was a self-absorbed, ridiculously chauvinistic scumbag. Thank God, I don't make generalizations. *Sorry 'bout that, just had to get it out ;D*
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Post by alaina on Jan 15, 2006 21:05:21 GMT -5
This is my opinion. I don't believe Asian men are generally forceful enough with the ladies. That's what my sister says about white men. She usually will notice them glancing and not saying anything. Her strategy is to approach, smile, ask for the time, or say something else unimportant. Then they ask to go for a cup of coffee. I'm not sure how much this is true generally, because I have never approached a man in my life, and I have never dated WASPs.
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Post by dukeofpain on Jan 16, 2006 1:45:23 GMT -5
www.bitterasianmen.com/Bitter Asian Men is about Asian Males being significantly disadvantaged in the dating (and therefore mating) game. The extension to this phenomena is that of not only Asian Males being rendered obsolete in the procreation (Higher rates of Black and White Males get to procreate in any given society than Asian Males), but Asians, or the Mongoloid form is being bred out by the more dominant Negroid and Caucasoid forms in these mixed society (High rates of Black Males+Black Females and White Males+White Females getting to procreate in any given society than Asian Males+Asian Females). I will expand more on this later, but I havent the time at present. The biggest question I have is why is it easy to picture any Black Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, and again any White Male in a relationship with a Black, White, or Asian Female, but very hard to picture any Asian Male in a relationship with any female other than an Asian Female? Something about the Asian Male Physique? Facial Expressions? make it seem like Asian Males are more feminine or weaker than Black and White Females. (TommyWong is not my real name for annoymity reasons, but I am an Asian Male) Asian Americans apparently have the main problem that they are usually "neither white nor Asian". Peole (including women) naturally notice it when people have problems with their identity. So they don't find Asian American males attractive. On the other hand, Asian American females seem to be quickly assimilated and thus become atractive for white males. Recently, someone in a different thread of this forum suggested something like that Asian Americans should start considered themselves as "whites". Just a neutral observer's suggestion: maybe you should join them. Then you might become more self-confident when trying to behave like a white male, also regarding mating. You're right. This isn't a product of yellow vs white. It's a product of Asians in western countries, particularly the USA. Home to many afflicted ethnic monstrosities.
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Post by Planet Asia on Jan 16, 2006 1:48:22 GMT -5
I could never sate outside my race
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 2:03:35 GMT -5
Tommy Wong, I'm puzzled by something you wrote in your post. You wrote that "something about the Asian male physique and facial expressions make it seem like Asian males are more feminine or weaker than Black and White *females* (emphasis added)". Did you mean to say, "males" rather than "females"? I don't think that non-Asian females are masculine. ;-)
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Post by asdf on Jan 16, 2006 2:07:43 GMT -5
I believe he just meant "Asian" men are more feminine than white and black men, but also even more feminine than the feminine halves of whites and blacks.
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 2:24:31 GMT -5
I believe he just meant "Asian" men are more feminine than white and black men, but also even more feminine than the feminine halves of whites and blacks. I think that he did too. I don't understand your point about feminine halves, though.
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Post by asdf on Jan 16, 2006 2:44:19 GMT -5
I meant females.
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Post by MC anunnaki on Jan 16, 2006 6:16:24 GMT -5
Asian males haven't caught on. The Asian female has been sexualized in society and they take advantage of this. All we need are a few hot Asian male celebrities to make Asian males trendy. There is nothing inherently wrong/feminine about Asian males to make them less desirable. I think so too. If we ever get to see any Asian males in movies and tv series, they're always very stereotypical (martial arts experts) and for some reason they very seldom pick the really good-looking Asian males, you either have the sleezy Asian badguy or the wise, elderly Asian man. Both types are completely asexual and not easy to identify with. If we were to see some good-looking Asians in lead roles, both as action heros and in romantic leads, I'm sure the image slowly but surely will change. Asian females aren't that much better off, they are rarely given the lead roles in anything in the media. When we see them they're very stereotypical as well, paedomorphic cute girlwomen who can kick ass if necessary. I think the reason why they're more involved in the interracial dating scen is simply because they go for it. Asian men need to do the same, god knows there's nothing feminine about them (other than perhaps height, but plenty are of average Western height or taller). He's not the best looking one, but there's something about Jet Li that makes it impossible for me to turn him down - like I'm going to get that lucky!
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 8:54:39 GMT -5
I checked out the web site. Some parts were humorous and realistic. Other parts were rather stupid. I found it ironic that he complained about racism while he made racist comments about White Americans. He even used the word, "whitey", which further decreased his credibility and objectivity. My advice for him is to stop whining. His self-pitying bitterness probably repels women much more than his appearance does. If *I* don't even want to be around whiney guys because they're downers, it stands to reason that most women sure don't want to date them.
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 9:06:59 GMT -5
He's saying that Asian males are more feminine than non-Asian females? LOL That's a bit much, but many Asian women tend to be more feminine than most non-Asian women. The reaction from Black women when Black men date White women is similar to the reacton from White women when White men date Asian women. They think that men are looking for more submissive women outside of their race.
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Post by nordicyouth on Jan 16, 2006 13:22:50 GMT -5
I live in what could be called a 'Yellow City,' with the highest per capita East Asian minority in the White West.
Asian men seem more concerned with video games, gambling, and nice cars than women. Most Asian women go for this, for whatever reason, but they always seem bored with their males.
Asian women want the financial potential and discipline of their males, but some badass too, so that's in a nutshell why they go for White guys, besides having a race insecurity complex about how Whites look i.e. blond hair, pale eyes, pale skin.
For White guys, Asian girls are less complicated - they don't give attitude or get in your face and are very affectionate...White males/Asian females seem to be the most harmonious interracial coupling possible...leading to marriage and kids.
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