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Post by nordicyouth on Jan 16, 2006 13:27:21 GMT -5
I was in an interracial relationship with a Japanese girl for some time; and I can assure you its Asian girls that do the hooking-up...they're more aggressive than other girls.
It's not that I choose to go out with an East Asian girl, it's that I choose which East Asian girl to go with, out of the many that hit on me in bars and clubs.
And let's face it, many White girl/Black guy relationships end up with some fat pregnant White girl living in a cramped apartment in the sticks with 4 illegitimate kids and no guy; the Asian girls on the other hand are more strategic in thinking - they get their blond White guy, a house on the West Side, and children (and Eurasians can be good-looking).
That's my 2 cents (CAD). If you're not from Vancouver, Canada, you don't know Asian girls...trust me.
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Post by stella22 on Jan 16, 2006 13:38:45 GMT -5
Begbie, I was going to make a similar point, but then decided not to because I thought nobody would believe me. I agree, Asian women are very aggressive when it comes to getting their white guy. If they get turned down, they don't care. They just try again.
One chinese american girl I knew was unstoppable. She set her sights on the white guy she wanted and that was that. He even told her he didn't date outside his race. She didn't take no for an answer.
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Post by alaina on Jan 16, 2006 15:12:40 GMT -5
I could never sate outside my race Why? |
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Post by Planet Asia on Jan 16, 2006 15:18:44 GMT -5
I could never sate outside my race Why? Having children is the reason. With my background, if I married a white woman and had children, what would my children be? When I think about the way white women have done black men through out the years with all those false rape tales it made them unattractive to me. When I see a black woman like Buffie the Body, Esther Baxter, Elise Neal or Nia Long I just can't think of ever dating outside of my race. Add to that that I'm from Mississippi, deep in the south and interracial dating is a no no. |
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Post by alaina on Jan 16, 2006 15:25:38 GMT -5
Having children is the reason. With my background, if I married a white woman and had children, what would my children be? What do you mean? Add to that that I'm from Mississippi, deep in the south and interracial dating is a no no. Is that supposed to be a justification? |
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Post by Planet Asia on Jan 16, 2006 15:47:22 GMT -5
Having children is the reason. With my background, if I married a white woman and had children, what would my children be? What do you mean? My mom knows how life is for a mixed race self person so why put my unborn kids through that? I don't want my future born kids pulling a Tiger Woods. In the Deep South we just don't do that, in NY you city slickers mix freely. It just isn't my piece of cake to date outside of my race. |
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Post by alaina on Jan 16, 2006 16:36:27 GMT -5
My mom knows how life is for a mixed race self person so why put my unborn kids through that? I don't want my future born kids pulling a Tiger Woods. Everyone's experience is different. Good, emotionally balanced parents generally make for good, emotionally balanced children. If my father was a father, I'd be in better shape. In the Deep South we just don't do that, in NY you city slickers mix freely. It just isn't my piece of cake to date outside of my race. Hey, it's fine if that's your personal preference. The way I see it, it's just hardly defensible to justify it otherwise. |
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Post by stella22 on Jan 16, 2006 16:55:01 GMT -5
[ Everyone's experience is different. Good, emotionally balanced parents generally make for good, emotionally balanced children. If my father was a father, I'd be in better shape. Do you think that outside pressures make an interracial couple less stable? |
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Post by alaina on Jan 16, 2006 17:00:42 GMT -5
[ Everyone's experience is different. Good, emotionally balanced parents generally make for good, emotionally balanced children. If my father was a father, I'd be in better shape. Do you think that outside pressures make an interracial couple less stable? Pressures from strangers and 'associates' are manageable. A lack of support from family is more harmful. |
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Post by buddy on Jan 16, 2006 17:17:25 GMT -5
Begbie, I was going to make a similar point, but then decided not to because I thought nobody would believe me. I agree, Asian women are very aggressive when it comes to getting their white guy. If they get turned down, they don't care. They just try again. One chinese american girl I knew was unstoppable. She set her sights on the white guy she wanted and that was that. He even told her he didn't date outside his race. She didn't take no for an answer. Really?? I never really knew Asian women to be this aggressive. At least I've never experienced this type of aggressiveness. In my experience, it's been mestizas and African-American women who approached me when it came to women of a different race. |
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Post by tommywong on Jan 16, 2006 18:02:01 GMT -5
He's saying that Asian males are more feminine than non-Asian females? LOL That's a bit much, but many Asian women tend to be more feminine than most non-Asian women. The reaction from Black women when Black men date White women is similar to the reacton from White women when White men date Asian women. They think that men are looking for more submissive women outside of their race. That IS what I am saying. Maybe 'feminine' is not the right word, since I don't mean that most males should find asian men more attractive than black or white females, perhaps 'submissive' is a better word. In most successful relationships the male is more dominating, usually by being physically stronger, or appearing more 'rougher', yes i think that's it roughness! When I picture a Black or White man with a woman of any race, the man comes across more rougher, and can easily turn on the woman. However, when I picture an Asian man with a white or black woman, the woman comes across as rougher. It doesn't matter if the Asian man knows kung fu, is moody, or is even roughly the same height or even bigger build. It's something else. I'm convinced there is something physically/hormonially wrong with most Asian males. If I knew how to post pictures, of typical Asian males against typical White and Black females I could illustrate my point. I've also found that the problem doesn't really occur with White men and Black women. It only occurs with White men and Black women when the woman has a bigger build, which is more or less the same as Black men and White women or Black men and Black women or White men and White women when the woman has a bigger build e.g. Lenny Henry and Dawn French or Serena Williams and Brett Ratner (imagine Liu Ye holding hands with Dawn French or Serena Williams?). When I say Asian men I'm referring to mostly CJK East Asian (Chinese-Japan-Korean). Phillipino types, Eurasians (Bruce Lee included) are not the same, and can more easily be pictured with women of other races. |
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Post by stella22 on Jan 16, 2006 18:20:19 GMT -5
I'm convinced there is something physically/hormonially wrong with most Asian males. I still don't think so at all. It has been shown that Asian babies are different than Caucasian babies. They are quieter and more 'still'. Maybe Asian adults are also slighty quieter or not as hyper. This gets misinterpreted as feminine behavior, but it is not at all. Just look at way Begbie and I noticed about Asian females. Despite their quiet manner, they can be quite aggressive, maybe even more aggressive than their other racial counterparts. So much for being submissive! |
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Post by Okai on Jan 16, 2006 19:21:03 GMT -5
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 21:24:59 GMT -5
Tommy Wong, you blew my mind! LOL I thought that you had made a typo when you wrote that Asian men are more feminine than Black women and White women. I know that you weren't referring to just physical features, but it's still quite a concept. IMO, there are *very* feminine women in every race just as their are rather feminine men in every race, although there probably are more feminine Asians of both genders. People keep mentioning martial artists to possibly counter your theory, but non-Asian men dominate combat sports. There are a Joe Lewis and a Chuck Norris (or a Billy Banks) to every Bruce Lee. The first three men held world championships, and people should research Joe Lewis, a White man from North Carolina, because he was voted as the Martial Artist of the Century by Black Belt Magazine. I think that White men generally are more masculine than Asian men, so I don't completely disagree with your theory.
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Post by Jack Reed on Jan 16, 2006 21:55:27 GMT -5
*This* really blew my mind! I watched Nancy Grace (a smart blonde lawyer/commentator from the South) on Cable Headline News while I read this thread. She talked about Olivia Newton John's missing boyfriend, who is of Asian descent. She said that, contrary to the stereotype, she and other women thought that he was very attractive. (no kidding)
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