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Post by Wadaad on May 14, 2005 14:51:13 GMT -5
I honestly do not consider race when the matter involves the opposite sex, c'mon guys poontang is poontang, thats how it should be since there are pretty girls in all races. I remember having a convo once about how race and racism does not correlate with sexual attraciveness...as the movie Monsters ball can attest to...how many white nazi skinheads would pass on the oppurtinity to sleep with Halle? But upon further thinking, I'd say girls of the darker ethnicities are the ones who find me attractive, Matter fact I actually remember in 11th grade this one blonde Polish girl told me straight up she didnt want anything to do with me because I wasnt black enough for her...she was probably into those big black, buck nigga types LOL.
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Post by MC anunnaki on May 14, 2005 15:04:53 GMT -5
No one's a racist from the waist down. If we see a piece of fine meat our reptile brain will react no matter how much we tell ourselves that we prefer the superior beauty of Nordics. There's not a racist/Nazi on this planet who would pass up the opportunity to bang a good-looking darkie as long as they could get away with it (image is everything). We're just too human for that.
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Post by Ponto Hardbottle on May 14, 2005 15:14:27 GMT -5
As my father said, "we are all the same height horizontally". Sex is sex.
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Post by vela on May 14, 2005 15:15:58 GMT -5
No one's a racist from the waist down. If we see a piece of fine meat our reptile brain will react no matter how much we tell ourselves that we prefer the superior beauty of Nordics. There's not a racist/Nazi on this planet who would pass up the opportunity to bang a good-looking darkie as long as they could get away with it (image is everything). We're just too human for that. I would go even beyond our reptile brain and say that ultimately were slaves of our genes main directive: be fruitful and multiply! Genes don't have a racial consciousness!
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Post by Crimson Guard on May 14, 2005 16:17:07 GMT -5
In the words of a Vulcan,"Live long and Procreate"!
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Post by MC anunnaki on May 14, 2005 16:36:28 GMT -5
Isn't that "Live long and prosper"?
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Post by buddyrydell on May 14, 2005 21:08:53 GMT -5
I honestly do not consider race when the matter involves the opposite sex, c'mon guys poontang is poontang, thats how it should be since there are pretty girls in all races. I remember having a convo once about how race and racism does not correlate with sexual attraciveness...as the movie Monsters ball can attest to...how many white nazi skinheads would pass on the oppurtinity to sleep with Halle? But upon further thinking, I'd say girls of the darker ethnicities are the ones who find me attractive, Matter fact I actually remember in 11th grade this one blonde Polish girl told me straight up she didnt want anything to do with me because I wasnt black enough for her...she was probably into those big black, buck nigga types LOL. Hehe good post man, I agree that anyone who says that there are no good-looking people in a particular racial/ethnic group is only lying to himself. I think that there are still some people who are mainly attracted to people like themselves, but I think it's safe to say that at one point we've all been drawn to someone of a different race. When it comes to sex, I don't think most people would have hang-ups when it came to someone of another background as long as he/she were attractive, but personally I'd say marriage is a totally different issue for most people.
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Post by Soomaal on May 14, 2005 21:13:25 GMT -5
Hehe good post man, I agree that anyone who says that there are no good-looking people in a particular racial/ethnic group is only lying to himself. I think that there are still some people who are mainly attracted to people like themselves, but I think it's safe to say that at one point we've all been drawn to someone of a different race. When it comes to sex, I don't think most people would have hang-ups when it came to someone of another background as long as he/she were attractive, but personally I'd say marriage is a totally different issue for most people. Your right, marriage is totally different thing.
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Post by Crimson Guard on May 15, 2005 0:07:37 GMT -5
<<Isn't that "Live long and prosper>> well that Vulcan mustve been me...
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Post by zemelmete on May 15, 2005 8:15:37 GMT -5
Yes, definitely. ;D Finns are known to be heavy drinkers. And the people in the metal scene - not my scene, but I have several friends who both play and listen to this music - here definitely are among the heaviest drinkers of them all. It seems that the famous slogan "sex and drugs and rock n' roll" should be "booze and booze and rock n' roll" here. Anyway, though the people in the metal scene are heavy drinkers, they are usually very friendly and peaceful people, and don't make trouble even when they are totally waisted. I agree. Actually finns are the best drinkers in the case that they don't stay so agressive as, for example, russians. Drunk russian can be really dangerous and often make big trouble.
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Post by MC anunnaki on May 15, 2005 8:51:13 GMT -5
A common old stereotype in Sweden about Finns is that they're always drunk and quick to use knives in "arguments". ;D
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Post by Josh on May 15, 2005 10:44:39 GMT -5
Yes, definitely. ;D Finns are known to be heavy drinkers. And the people in the metal scene - not my scene, but I have several friends who both play and listen to this music - here definitely are among the heaviest drinkers of them all. It seems that the famous slogan "sex and drugs and rock n' roll" should be "booze and booze and rock n' roll" here. Anyway, though the people in the metal scene are heavy drinkers, they are usually very friendly and peaceful people, and don't make trouble even when they are totally waisted. I wish I knew Finnish. It sounds like I'd have a blast and many laughs with Finnish metalheads if I did. You might already know this from my other posts, but I'm quite into metal myself.
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Post by Anja on May 15, 2005 11:28:42 GMT -5
Often seems that way for me too. However, in my pottery class, there is one euromestiza-looking Mexican girl who always showers me with attention and compliments, so I think she might me at least somewhat attracted to me. Not that I'm complaining, she's rather cute. Right now though, I'm in a rather complex situation with a different girl, who is also Mexican (and I'd say she's of Indomestiza physical type; she's quite dark and fairly Indian looking). Basically, my friend (who lives 25 miles away from me, as does her friend who she planned to hook me up with) had been planning for over a month to hook us up, and when we finally met, we too quickly jumped to the conclusion that we wanted to date each other. However, the suddeness of everything seemed rather strange for me, and so I became very nervous. So nervous, that the next, I more or less called it off, despite the fact that everything went rather well the previous day (save for the suddeness of everything). hey man, I had the same kind of problem back around Christmas. I started talking to this guy on the internet...I'd met him in person before briefly but...anyway, we really liked each other, he was really nice to talk to (namely because he didn't have a big ego...he's kind of crippled). Anyway, when we met in person, I got freaked out because I felt like he was assuming that after 5 days of internet conversations, we were a couple. Furthermore, his personality wasn't the same in person (I think he was nervous). Anyway, I got really pissed everytime he put his arm around me, and once he tried to kiss me (hell yeah I was mad)...so I kind of stopped talking to him as much. I feel bad about it, but I didn't like how fast he was trying to go...we couldn't even hold decent conversations in person...I'm worried he thinks I stopped hanging out with him because he's crippled, but that's not true at all...
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Post by Wadaad on May 15, 2005 11:41:51 GMT -5
Its happened on multiple occasions, though in retrospect all the men who have hit on me were white. lol. once while getting off the subway this little hispanic man came upto me and asked for my help because he was lost and from out of town...I swear he looked like a clone of the SNL character Mango. I directed him to the terminal he was looking for, but he decided he wanted to tag along with me for some odd reason. I felt a very strange, gross vibe about the guy's behaviour towards me...so I made some excuse and told him I was too busy to show him around. Maybe Im a bit paranoid I dont know but I still freak out thinking about it.
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Post by MC anunnaki on May 15, 2005 13:00:47 GMT -5
That reminds me of something that happened to me back in high school. I was 16 and school had just ended. I was waiting for my bus when a rather distinguished Middle Eastern man approached. First he just chatted about the weather and stuff and I politely responded that yes, the weather is quite shitty in Sweden as a matter of fact. He was well dressed in a suit and didn't look like a bum or anything. His Swedish was ok so he must have lived here for some time. Then all of a sudden he moved up closer and asked what my name was, from where I was ("You don't look Swedish but you speak sooooo well!"), where I lived etc. Uh-oh, what to do! Mom always said to bust their nuts and run or was it just to scream and run? Anyway, I lied about my name and when my bus came I said something like oh gee, here's my bus, I must take it now or else my father will be very angry if I'm late! Something like that anyway, sort of to show him that I was expected somewhere (which was a lie of course). I'm a terrible lier, so I don't know if he fell for it, but he didn't get on the bus which I was afraid of. There were other teens waiting with me, but somehow you still feel alone when a stranger tries to get "intimate".
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