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Post by Evan1211 on May 12, 2005 17:40:13 GMT -5
I'll agree with Mike for me too- none here.
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Post by Josh on May 12, 2005 20:19:48 GMT -5
None. Often seems that way for me too. However, in my pottery class, there is one euromestiza-looking Mexican girl who always showers me with attention and compliments, so I think she might me at least somewhat attracted to me. Not that I'm complaining, she's rather cute. Right now though, I'm in a rather complex situation with a different girl, who is also Mexican (and I'd say she's of Indomestiza physical type; she's quite dark and fairly Indian looking). Basically, my friend (who lives 25 miles away from me, as does her friend who she planned to hook me up with) had been planning for over a month to hook us up, and when we finally met, we too quickly jumped to the conclusion that we wanted to date each other. However, the suddeness of everything seemed rather strange for me, and so I became very nervous. So nervous, that the next, I more or less called it off, despite the fact that everything went rather well the previous day (save for the suddeness of everything). I became very depressed for a few weeks and the girl probably was too (she wrote some very negative poems about me, some attacking me, some suggesting that she wasn't good enough for me). Each day that passed, the more I regretted what I did. So I wrote a letter, telling her that I am gravely sorry for what I did, that what I did was purely based on the odd situation and not any fault of hers, and that I wanted to patch things up between us, get to actually know each other, and ultimately date each other during the summer. This weekend, I gave the letter to my friend who hooked us up and apparently she got the letter Monday. Yesterday, my friend told me that she was surprised, but positively so, though that is all I know right now, since it was on a text message (I haven't been able to talk with her because we've basically both been to sick to speak over the phone this week). When I got that message, I was quite happy. With the way things have been going, it looks to me like things should ultimately work out between us afterall. Anyways, sorry to get off topic, as it is clearly not called, "Relationship issues", but I guess it sort of fit in, as we were both attracted to each other.
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Post by Faelcind on May 12, 2005 20:33:15 GMT -5
No pattern I have been hit on by women and men :-/m of all ages and every race/ethnicity common in my area.
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Post by Toasty on May 12, 2005 20:44:33 GMT -5
Strangely enough, euro looking mexican and anglo/mexican girls.
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Post by alexandrian on May 12, 2005 20:53:04 GMT -5
No pattern I have been hit on by women and men :-/m of all ages and every race/ethnicity common in my area. you get hit on by men?
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Post by Faelcind on May 12, 2005 20:56:21 GMT -5
Its happened on multiple occasions, though in retrospect all the men who have hit on me were white.
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Post by murphee on May 12, 2005 21:05:34 GMT -5
Euro-American men.
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Post by Evan1211 on May 13, 2005 18:31:18 GMT -5
A funny thing happened yestday actually. I was at the local theme/amusement park for a school trip and I was with my friends waiting in line for some water ride. There were two girls from another school waiting in front of me- one Nordic and the other a Med. The Nordic didn't talk to me at all, but flirted with my friend alot, whereas the Med flirted with me exclusively. I found the Med more attractive BTW so it was good for me . Then we all got on the ride together. Its funny, because after the ride I remembered this post. Strange how Dodona mixes in your life, isn't it?! So I guess I take back what I said before- SOME girls do flirt with me, just not many.
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Post by Soomaal on May 13, 2005 19:55:23 GMT -5
I am internationally demanded.
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Post by zemelmete on May 14, 2005 9:11:56 GMT -5
I am internationally demanded. As I understand, you are of african origin? I know that many european girls are attracted a lot to darkskinned men. Here in Latvia, almost all people of african or indian origin easly find girlfriends while many native latvian and also russian men stay empty-handed and can't get any girlfriend. Of course, here are also girls who find darkskinned men unattractive or even disgusting, but it doesn't influence situation.
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Post by MC anunnaki on May 14, 2005 11:30:51 GMT -5
As I understand, you are of african origin? I know that many european girls are attracted a lot to darkskinned men. Here in Latvia, almost all people of african or indian origin easly find girlfriends while many native latvian and also russian men stay empty-handed and can't get any girlfriend. Of course, here are also girls who find darkskinned men unattractive or even disgusting, but it doesn't influence situation. It's the same thing here and as soon as some bitter Swede sees that a black gets a Swedish girlfriend while he is stuck with Mr Right hand, they start to bitch about how deranged white women must be to find black men attractive. I guess it must hit you extra hard if white women find a black guy more attractive.
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Post by Ponto Hardbottle on May 14, 2005 11:41:38 GMT -5
Sometimes Mrs Palmer and her five daughters are more available than any fickle woman and more consistent. ;D I tell you something, it is frightening when some woman is attracted to you when you find her unattractive. I have even had to hide in the men's room or leave early in order to avoid unwanted attention.
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Post by Toasty on May 14, 2005 11:50:42 GMT -5
^ Lol.
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Post by Soomaal on May 14, 2005 14:32:32 GMT -5
As I understand, you are of african origin? I know that many european girls are attracted a lot to darkskinned men. Here in Latvia, almost all people of african or indian origin easly find girlfriends while many native latvian and also russian men stay empty-handed and can't get any girlfriend. Of course, here are also girls who find darkskinned men unattractive or even disgusting, but it doesn't influence situation. East African there is a big difference, I ain't no pygmy.LOL
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Post by Ilmatar on May 14, 2005 14:47:28 GMT -5
Does alcohol play a part in the extroverted behavior of Finnish guys on Saturdays? This is not an insult, I've seen several Finns, especially on predominately Finnish metal message boards, comment (with some degree of pride I might add) on the high alcohol consumption of their compatriots. Still, what you say is interesting as it contradicts the general stereotype of Northern Europeans as shy, introverted, and always reserved. Yes, definitely. ;D Finns are known to be heavy drinkers. And the people in the metal scene - not my scene, but I have several friends who both play and listen to this music - here definitely are among the heaviest drinkers of them all. It seems that the famous slogan "sex and drugs and rock n' roll" should be "booze and booze and rock n' roll" here. Anyway, though the people in the metal scene are heavy drinkers, they are usually very friendly and peaceful people, and don't make trouble even when they are totally waisted.
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