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Post by Platypus on Jan 5, 2006 8:43:39 GMT -5
There is this old theory that we are either attracted by those who are Opposite to us or those who are Similar to us. 1) Opposite Physical types: Includes one or more of these elements: Blondes that like brunettes and viceversa, different physical builds (little likes big), different height,different skin tones, or maybe big features V.s small features, or Rugged aspect vs. Soft, 'Dirty' Vs 'Clean' ;)etc
2) Similar Physical types: Includes one or more of these elements: About the same size, or similar colouring, or similar features, or face shape, feature size, similar expressions...etc
Just check what has been the most recurrent element so far
This is not a rule. In my case so far I've gone mainly for girls with comparably similar features , though hair colours varied and so did height.
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Post by Platypus on Jan 5, 2006 10:01:42 GMT -5
I'm going to dinner now, when I'm back I want to see some results, if not I'll state that Dodonites are mostly frigid and that they will never have Girlfriends or boyfriends ;D
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Post by dukeofpain on Jan 5, 2006 10:12:17 GMT -5
There is this old theory that we are either attracted by: 1) Opposite Physical types: Includes one or more of these elements: say opposite physical builds, height, opposite colouring, big features V.s small features, Rugged vs. Soft, 'Dirty' Vs 'Clean' ;)etc 2) Similar Physical types: Include one or more of these elements: About the same size, similar colouring, similar features, face shape, feature size, similar expressions...etc Of course this is not a rule. In my case so far I've gone mainly for girls with comparably similar features Men and women are allready opposites in stark contrast, so I opt for the later, more familiar faces.
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Post by MC anunnaki on Jan 5, 2006 10:36:59 GMT -5
Are very tall, blue-eyed men my complete opposite? I'm short and brown-eyed.
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Post by Platypus on Jan 5, 2006 10:40:28 GMT -5
Are very tall, blue-eyed men my complete opposite? I'm short and brown-eyed. its a typical example, yes.
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Post by Ilmatar on Jan 5, 2006 11:54:07 GMT -5
I prefer men who are taller than me and have hair, but that's about it for the physical traits. Otherwise I'm very "brainy", attracted to smart guys who can talk.
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Post by nockwasright on Jan 5, 2006 12:10:34 GMT -5
Are very tall, blue-eyed men my complete opposite? I'm short and brown-eyed. its a typical example, yes. I dont' think so as all women like taller men. The answer should concern only traits different from the ones that differentiate man and women. As for the blue eyes part in this case.
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Post by $$$ FD $$$ on Jan 5, 2006 12:27:29 GMT -5
i've selected opposites! from the white race i like pontid females the best, they have the most gorgeousness, lithe femininity, interesting pigmentation and they have lots of appeal on many different levels, charismatic. the other important preference would be black and mulattoid ladies from america.
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Post by nockwasright on Jan 5, 2006 12:39:31 GMT -5
^^ then how comes the voice opposites was still at zero before I selected it?
I choose opposite as I like blonde/nordic/leptosomic/ with some dinaric spice maybe, which is quite different from myself/ my family
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Post by $$$ FD $$$ on Jan 5, 2006 13:00:01 GMT -5
when thinking about tallness in men there must be two modes of development - firstly there is the basic tall lanky outfit without an impression of sturdy heaviness - the stature + somatotype looks quite lofty.
the second mode is when compared to a basic lankasome individual of same stature the former has an impression of sturdiness, the longi linear dimensions veer towards an overall shorter body size, there is more compactness and so on.
diserning these quite subjective - discrete qualities depends on how good you are at assessing.
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Post by Lada on Jan 5, 2006 13:47:51 GMT -5
I like oposite, Im attracted by Atlanto-meds, Pontids: tall, dark hair. But it seems that men attracted by me are usually blond Alpines/Nordics.
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Post by murphee on Jan 5, 2006 14:24:24 GMT -5
I am most attracted by people with similar features. My husband is brunette, but many of his features, expressions and also his personality are similar to mine. He seems more like a brother than my biological brother, and there is the spark of romance also.
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Post by tonynatuzzi on Jan 5, 2006 14:28:00 GMT -5
Murphee so when you were still single you dated mostly or only blonde haired and blue eyed guys.
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Post by murphee on Jan 5, 2006 17:20:28 GMT -5
I dated blond and brunette men.
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Post by tonynatuzzi on Jan 5, 2006 17:37:27 GMT -5
I ask because you said you were more attracted to men with the same features as you so that would rule out most Jewish men as well as most Southern European men since you have lighter features than most Jewish and Southern Euro men.So your more attracted to Rutger Hauer Nordic types than you are to Adam Sandler types or Dean Martin types basically dark ethnic looking Caucasoid men are not your thing right.
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